Listen To Instincts
Hey Lykkers! Let's talk about one of the hardest skills in real estate: saying "no." You've toured a property, you can almost picture yourself (or your tenants) living there, and you feel that pull to make an offer.
But sometimes, the smartest move you can make is to walk away. How do you know when that "great opportunity" is actually a trap in disguise?
Let's grab a coffee and talk about the three clear signs that should send you heading for the door.
Sign 1: The Numbers Scream "No" (Even When Your Heart Whispers "Yes")
This is the non-negotiable, deal-breaking sign. If the property’s financials don’t work on paper, they won’t work in real life. We’re talking about a simple calculation: will the rental income reliably cover all your expenses (mortgage, taxes, insurance, maintenance fund, vacancy buffer) and still leave you with profit?
This is where emotion is your enemy. Legendary investor Warren Buffett’s first rule is: “Rule No. 1: Never lose money. Rule No. 2: Never forget rule No. 1." Forcing a bad deal because you’re excited or tired of searching violates this fundamental principle.
What to do: Run your analysis twice. If you’re relying on future rent rises or unrealistically low maintenance costs to make the numbers add up, you’re speculating, not investing. As David Greene, real estate investor and author of Long-Distance Real Estate Investing, advises, “Don’t trust your gut; trust your numbers.” A property that needs mental gymnastics to justify is your first sign to walk.
Sign 2: The "Three L's" Are Against You: Location, Layout, and Liabilities
You can change almost anything about a house except where it sits. A bad location—on a noisy highway, next to a declining commercial property, in a neighborhood with falling values—is a permanent anchor on your investment.
Next is the Layout. A weird floor plan with tiny bedrooms or one bathroom for three bedrooms is a major turn-off for future buyers and tenants. Renovating a layout is extremely expensive and often impossible.
Finally, major Liabilities uncovered in the inspection. We’re not talking about a leaky faucet. We’re talking about foundational cracks, pervasive mold, ancient electrical wiring (knob-and-tube), or a failing septic system. These are "capital expenditures" that can cost tens of thousands.
What to do: Trust the due diligence. A severe issue is a gift of clarity. It gives you a concrete, unemotional reason to terminate the contract and get your earnest money back.
Sign 3: Your Gut Says "This Feels Wrong," and You Can't Pinpoint Why
This is the subtlest but often most important sign. Maybe the seller is being strangely evasive. Perhaps the timeline feels rushed. Something just feels “off.” This isn’t about cold feet; it’s about subconsciously recognizing red flags your conscious mind hasn’t yet processed.
In real estate, complexity is the enemy of a good deal. If simple questions get complicated answers, beware. A messy process before you even own the property predicts a nightmare afterward.
What to do: Pause. Ask more questions. If the unease persists, listen to it. There will always be another property. Walking away from a deal that feels wrong preserves your capital, your sanity, and your ability to jump on the right opportunity when it comes along.
Remember Lykkers, in real estate, your power isn’t just in saying “yes.” Your real strength is having the discipline to confidently say “no.” Walking away isn’t failure; it’s a strategic retreat that keeps you in the game for the win.